Firstly, I want to wish everyone one of you a great month ahead. This is probably not the summer we expected but we’ll get through it.
I don’t have much to say today, just wanted to share my thoughts with you, I’ve had this on my chest for a while now, so yeah.
Bad Things Happen.
Bad things happen and will probably never stop happening, I’m beginning to think it’s part of the life cycle. At one point or the other, we’re going to face something we didn’t plan for, something that would break us.
I’m not here to tell you not to let out your emotions by crying or withdrawing for a bit, very far from that.
I just want you to know that no matter how bad the turn things take, there’s always a lesson life is trying to teach you.
So when going through a tough time, be open, allow yourself to learn find a blessing in the ‘curse’.
It’s definitely not going to be as easy as learning the alphabet, but it’ll go a long way.
And yeah, don’t narrow your mindset down to the ‘big’ things you can learn. It could be the little life guides like;
– Valuing relationships.
– Being more caring.
– Learning to be happy or to forgive.
– Self discovery.
– And last but not the least, sometimes bad things happen to us because someone in the nearest future is going to need our story to survive, sometimes we go through stuff to become the symbol of strength and hope for others.
So don’t write yourself off.
Don’t write your future plans off because of the bad things that happen.
No matter how bad it may look, it’s a phase and just like any other phase, it’ll pass. So just hang in there.
You can take my word for it because honestly, I’ve had my fair share of bad stuff that turned out to be eye openers.
And lest I forget, if you ever find yourself hurting, reach out to someone. It’s not the easiest thing to do, but it’s necessary. It can be a sibling or a close friend, or even the lady at the coffee shop who is always polite to you, just find someone trust worthy, someone who wouldn’t belittle your emotions.
This was really short and random but I’ve had it in mind for some time now. I hope you found this helpful.